I can not seem to find the button for reccomending this site. Can some please point me in the right direction

   

Well you can just send an email the old fasioned way
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There is also banners and buttons/images for linking here:
http://www.canadaka.net/modules.php?name=Help

And this is probably what your talking about, a form to recommend the site:
http://www.canadaka.net/modules.php?name=Recommend_Us