Family disputes gay server's story
jj2424 @ Tue Nov 26, 2013 8:07 am
After a gay server at a New Jersey restaurant said a customer denied her a tip and wrote her a hateful note on the receipt, a local family contacted NBC 4 New York and said their receipt shows they paid a tip and didn't write any such note.
Dayna Morales, a former Marine and a server at Gallop Asian Bistro in Bridgewater, posted a photo on Facebook earlier this month, showing the bill with a line through the space for a tip. The photo of the receipt showed someone had written, "I'm sorry but I cannot tip because I do not agree with your lifestyle."
Morales indicated in her Facebook post, and in subsequent media interviews -- including with NBC 4 New York -- that the customer wrote that line.
But a family contacted NBC 4 New York claiming their receipt from the restaurant shows they did leave a tip, and provided what they said was a credit card statement as proof.
The husband and wife, who asked to remain anonymous, showed NBC 4 New York a receipt that appeared to be printed at the same minute, on the same date, for the same $93.55 total, except with an $18 tip.
They also provided a document they said was a Visa bill, which appears to indicate their card was charged for the meal plus the tip, for a total of $111.55.
The couple told NBC 4 New York that they believed their receipt was used for a hoax. The wife says she is left-handed and could not have made the slash in the tip line, which she said looks to be drawn from the right.
"We've never not left a tip when someone gave good service, and we would never leave a note like that," the wife said.
The husband said he and his wife have both worked in restaurants and believe in the value of tipping, and noted that he didn't vote for Gov. Chris Christie because the governor doesn't support gay marriage.
"Never would a message like that come from us," he said.
Morales told NBC 4 New York on Monday that she was certain she did not receive a tip, and insisted the handwriting on the receipt was not hers. When asked if there had been some sort of misunderstanding, she said, "I don't know, all I know is what I've been saying."
A manager and the restaurant owner insisted they had the original ticket for the $93.55 charge, but would not produce the receipt for NBC 4 New York and could not explain why the family's credit card was charged for more.
The restaurant later said in a statement it was aware of the allegations and had no comment pending an internal investigation.
Whatever happened, the couple believes it may have begun with a misunderstanding.
They said they thought the hostess who sat the family told them their server would be "Dan," and when Morales showed up at their table, the wife exclaimed "whoa, you're not Dan."
Morales wrote in her Facebook post that the wife said, "oh I thought you were gonna say your name is Dan. You sure surprised us!"
According to the couple, the rest of the meal with their two children went fine.
They said they came forward because the story of the receipt note didn't appear to be going away; Morales had recently announced that people were sending her tips from all over the world, and was donating some of the money to the Wounded Warrior Project.
"I just felt like people have a right to know that -- it's fine of people want to donate to her or to the Wounded Warriors, but they're doing it under a false pretense," the wife said.
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There may be as they say "something rotten in the state of Denmark". So many questions so few answers.
If what these people say is true and which their bill seems to corroborate then, Dayna Morales ranks as one of the sleeziest individuals in the State of New Jersey especially considering she's only giving "some" of the money to the Wounded Warriors Project.
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Morales had recently announced that people were sending her tips from all over the world, and was donating some of the money to the Wounded Warrior Project.
It'd be interesting to know just how much she's collected and how much she's actually given to that Foundation? I suspect that Ms Morales is in for a rude shock because nobody is going to give her a pass on this one if she's found to be a fraud, sexual orientation notwithstanding.
There's been a few cases of these food servers with this no tip sob stories that are coming out as bullshit as of late. There was another high publicity one about a racial slur written down...only for that to come out as fraud by the waitress who allegedly got the tip.
It's a disgrace and a sad call for attention.
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The husband said he and his wife have both worked in restaurants and believe in the value of tipping, and noted that he didn't vote for Gov. Chris Christie because the governor doesn't support gay marriage.
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"just because you're more enlightened than the rest of your species, do you think we hate you any less?"
BartSimpson BartSimpson:
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"just because you're more enlightened than the rest of your species, do you think we hate you any less?"

Do you really think the purpose of enlightenment is make people hate you less? I would say it's its own reward. Part of being enlightened, IMHO anyways, is really not caring what people you don't even know think of you.
DrCaleb @ Tue Nov 26, 2013 10:06 am
Zipperfish Zipperfish:
BartSimpson BartSimpson:
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"just because you're more enlightened than the rest of your species, do you think we hate you any less?"

Do you really think the purpose of enlightenment is make people hate you less? I would say it's its own reward. Part of being enlightened, IMHO anyways, is really not caring what people you don't even know think of you.
^^ That.
Zipperfish Zipperfish:
BartSimpson BartSimpson:
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"just because you're more enlightened than the rest of your species, do you think we hate you any less?"

Do you really think the purpose of enlightenment is make people hate you less? I would say it's its own reward. Part of being enlightened, IMHO anyways, is really not caring what people you don't even know think of you.
The quote is from
Battlestar Galactica: Blood & Chrome and it is not a comment upon the purportedly enlightened person, it is a comment upon their attacker.
DrCaleb @ Tue Nov 26, 2013 11:09 am
BartSimpson BartSimpson:
Zipperfish Zipperfish:
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"just because you're more enlightened than the rest of your species, do you think we hate you any less?"
Do you really think the purpose of enlightenment is make people hate you less? I would say it's its own reward. Part of being enlightened, IMHO anyways, is really not caring what people you don't even know think of you.
The quote is from
Battlestar Galactica: Blood & Chrome and it is not a comment upon the purportedly enlightened person, it is a comment upon their attacker.
I for one took it as such. And I took Zip's comment as 'haters gonna hate'. If the waitress is so uncomfortable being gay so that she has to lash out at imagined foes; it's not our problem. Nothing to see here . . . move along . . .move along.
DanSC @ Tue Nov 26, 2013 1:13 pm
I just assume all of these stories are faked.
DanSC DanSC:
I just assume all of these stories are faked.
...or lost in translation to a sensationalist media.
Thanos @ Tue Nov 26, 2013 1:37 pm
BartSimpson BartSimpson:
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The husband said he and his wife have both worked in restaurants and believe in the value of tipping, and noted that he didn't vote for Gov. Chris Christie because the governor doesn't support gay marriage.
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"just because you're more enlightened than the rest of your species, do you think we hate you any less?"

LOL. Good quote*. Not too sure that most of teh gayz want to have all us boring breeders exterminated though.
*Tricia Helfer, the Aryan goddess, did the voice for that one. Bloody sucks that more BSG probably won't ever happen. NBC's too cheap to commit to that level of CGi work again and they got scared off anyway when Caprica failed.
Hold on a second. How do we even know this is the same family that the server had not tip.
The server never named anyone and this family came forward on their own? Common am I the only one here who sees this is more then a little odd.
Thanos @ Tue Nov 26, 2013 1:43 pm
They say their credit card statement confirms that they left the tip. $111 total whereas the too-butch waitress says they only left $93 plus the snotty comment.
CanadianJeff CanadianJeff:
Hold on a second. How do we even know this is the same family that the server had not tip.
The server never named anyone and this family came forward on their own? Common am I the only one here who sees this is more then a little odd.
Because the merchant copy of the bill the waitress has shown and the consumer copy of the bill which the family has produced are for the same amount on the same day at exactly the same time. A little bit beyond being mere coincidence.
CanadianJeff CanadianJeff:
Hold on a second. How do we even know this is the same family that the server had not tip.
The server never named anyone and this family came forward on their own? Common am I the only one here who sees this is more then a little odd.
Just because you're gay doesn't mean by default you have to side with the waitress.