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So first, you don't trust your woman, and second, if your child turns out not to be yours, you disown it, no matter if you were married to the mom or not.

Tough luck, it aint working that way.

If you'd ask me for a DNA test of OUR child (or more a paternity test, I take it), that we made in wedlock (or common law relationship), I would divorce you pronto and sue your ass for more than half of your assets.

   

I have sex with plenty of women I wouldn't trust with my wallet.

I am a man after all.

Like I said, women cheat as much as men now. To think you are immune is the height of stupidity.

http://www.menstuff.org/issues/byissue/ ... stats.html

   

My bud had a test done without the mother knowing. How do you prevent it, if you are trying to include the "fake father" in your income generator babies life?

   

I am thinking one of two things...You are almost 40 and, I am assuming you are not married so, here I go...You either live with mommy and daddy who never showed true affection or you are in jail.

An attitude like yours is guaranteed to bag you a special babe!

   

He could always try E Harmony!!!

   

I am one guy who has 5 friends and coworkers who have had women lie outright about paternity. Do you think this is something out of the ordinary?

I am very involved in ancestry research. We had our Y-DNA tests done (My Dad and I) and registered in a database. This matches Paternal ancestry. We found 11 people across North America connected to us. 3 males were shocked. Because they did have the same last name as the 8 matches do. Which means there paternal ancestry is inconsistent with their paternal name.

Pretty interesting stuff. Seems women were pulling this in the olden days.

P.S> I am very moral in dating, but I like meaningless sex between long term relationships. I have never dated two women at once, ever.

   

I have spent my years in post graduate work, running a public corporation and owning several companies. Many men chose to wait until they are financially set before marrying, like me.

I CHOSE not to marry. Haven't lived with my parents since the mid 1980s, never been to jail or inside of a Police Station in my life.

I have seen too many friends on their 2nd, 3rd and 4th marriages.

I plan on a political career and figure that will be an easier lifestyle to raise a family within.

   

"Huh? They have the same last name and are shocked they might be related on their father's side?"

No they have the wrong last name. Because either their female ancestry lied, or maybe their paternal ancestry knowingly married a women with another man's child.

It is funny, I see people in the genealogy forums who aren't interested in their family name when they find out about genetic inconsistencies.

People want to know their genetic links. Ask adopted children. DNA answers so many questions and offers insight into so-so much, including traits and mental and physical disease patterns.

This why it is sooo evil for a women to lie about paternity.

   

Agreed.

I have shunned a friend who refused to support his biological kids.

   

I never said one thing inconsistent with legal adoptions or for that matter a man willingly taking a child as his own who isn't genetically his. That is laudable.

But to misrepresent paternity should be civilly and criminally actionable.

   

If I meant Slut I would have written out slut....but that works too....I just dont say the other word unless necessary...this is necessary I said it out loud.

   

You mean she's a Danish king??

   

I completely agree with that...not only is it emotional abuse against the spouse but emotional abuse against the children. Its pathetic and makes me sick, man/woman up and admit if you fucked around before getting pregnant.

For all those that think this man should pay up. Bullshit, he should get custody and that poor excuse for a mother should be paying up.

I lived common law with my ex for 10 years (he is not the father of my children), when we split I would have never expected one penny from him....why because he does what a true father is supposed to do, he is there for the boys even though he isnt the father and he isnt the father . I have never expected one penny from natural father because he never was a father and never will be.

   

OK its a Nasty XXXX!!!!!

   

I can't understand how anyone believes deceit, and such a crime against one of the most sacred of institutions (bringing children into the world) can be rewarded.

It flies in the face of equality of gender, and historic moral societal codes.

Any woman who would pass off a child as another man's child is evil and deserving of scorn and sanction.

   

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